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Saturday, May 23, 2009

Xander's First Fling

All my life I've been exposed to "flings". Who can blame me?
At the very first time I had a girlfriend, twas a long distance relationship. I thought she was serious about me and hence I was very faithful to our serious relationship.
For our monthsary, I gave her a beautiful bracelet costing a ridiculous amount of money especially for our young age. In return she--well actually her cousin gave it to me because she was busy-- me a pen with a penlight and a laser pointer.

Eventually she asked if I liked her humble gift. I said I loved it and because of this she wanted me to use it every time I write drafts on my blog. I was very disappointed. I know I have to consider her thoughts and efforts but hello I sacrificed to buy that bracelet. It costs a lot. I skipped meals to save a sufficient money to buy her something special and I got a pen in return.

I know you would react that I am selfish and materialistic or so, well consider my side of the story. I don't really care about tags. I care about the thought, the effort, and most especially the sentimentality of the gift. I gave her a bracelet because I want her to see how beautiful she was to me. I want her to be confident and beautiful and even though we are cities apart, I will be able to always be with her in the medium of a bracelet. I even gave her the most beautiful poem a HS can give to his girl.

Well love erases the fear of debt they say and I never told her what her gift made me feel. I don't want her to feel that I am materialistic even though she is richer than me. I made her agree that the next time we exchange gifts it would be because we survived a year together. We also agreed that during summer vacation we would see each other. I will be taking talent enhancement lessons and she said she will be staying at her cousin's house which is a door away from my school.

I'm so excited that I will be spending my summer with my girl. I said to myself, maybe it may turn out to be one of my best summer vacation.

(To be continued...)


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